Thursday, June 30, 2011

Dress Your Best Week - Day 4: Thunder

Jeans: J Crew
Tee: gift from a friend (similar to this one)
Sweater: Banana Republic
Shoes: Sperry
Earrings: Target

First of all, thanks for the support for yesterday's post. I was scared to talk about my chest on the Internet, but apparently I am not alone in that arena, so, again: thanks.
Second, just when you thought I couldn't get any more awkward, let's talk about my thighs, shall we?

I have thick thighs. Even when I was at the lowest weight of my adult life, my thighs were round and heavy. They've been this way for as long as I've had a woman's body, which as we discussed yesterday, came early in my life. And while I haven't always enjoyed it, and while the delightful young men in my 6th and 7th grade PE classes liked to shout "thunder thighs" when I ran past (it wasn't special treatment, they were that nice to all the girls), I've come to appreciate these thighs.

I appreciate them so much that now I wear skinny jeans (drawing attention the the fact that my leg is not a single long line) with a lighter colored top that ends at my widest point (drawing attention to said "flaw"). Because I'm so over rules that don't make me feel more comfortable in my skin.

These thighs, with their round heaviness, connect me to a line of women I love. My mom and my sister have thighs like these. My aunts and cousins do, too. It's in our DNA. There's something that's almost like validation when I see these quirky parts of me and remember that they connect me to the people I love most.

So, I appreciate my thighs today. No, they're not slim, and no, it's not easy to find jeans that fit in the waist and the thigh, but they're a point of connection. They are strong. They are mine.

Are there any parts of your body that make you feel connected to your family? Am I the only weird one?


  1. I don't know about being connected to my family in my case, but I know what you mean. :) I'm over fashion rules too! Fashion rules are dumb!

  2. The same with me and my thighs) A lot of Ukrainian women have larger thighs and heavier bottom half of a body. Sometimes I feel kinda cautious about them, sometimes I proud of them 'cause it's my connection to my family and my heritage. So yeah, also thighs)

  3. Hm, probably my long legs give me a sense of connection to my father...Most all of my girl cousins on that side of the family are tall and long legged.

  4. I have my dad's toes! :)


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